You will find that fire and focus is easier to maintain when the goals you are setting are intrinsically motivated. You want them, you are willing to work and make sacrifices for them – because YOU want it, you want to see those results become a reality! If you are setting a goal because someone else is telling you to or because society expects you to, you can bet when you are faced with your first hurdle you will struggle to source the energy and desire to jump.
Goals are fun. They are not a chore or a way to beat yourself up – they are an opportunity to articulate clearly to the universe what you want